Yes, quality of life is important. I will definitely try at least the calming hers for him -- he's like the roadrunner sometimes, tearing around here. Right now he's complaining because he wants more food in his bowl! So getting him a bit happier is a big deal.

All we can do is our best. For all we know, we're already doing what the universe told us to do. (By the way -- did you get the job doing the theatre gig?)