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alfreda89 ([personal profile] alfreda89) wrote2007-06-26 08:43 pm
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The Truth Behind Women's Brains (No, not a joke!)

20/20's Elizabeth Vargas Looks at the Chemical Changes That Occur Through Life That Change How Men and Women Think.

This article suggests that instead of the blank slates some think them to be, the brains of babies are already hardwired for certain things. (I know you moms will not be surprised by much of this article.)

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=2504460&page=1

[identity profile] treebyleaf.livejournal.com 2007-06-27 01:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, the tabula rosa theory went right out ten years ago once tests were developed to actually observe babies thinking; the media isn't catching up yet.

You'd love _Scientist in teh Crib_. Not a lot about the differences between boy and girl brains, but a beautiful extended consideration of how the cultural association of actually handling babies with "women's work" and therefore demeaning and of little worth delayed true scientific study of human development by centuries.

[identity profile] alfreda89.livejournal.com 2007-06-27 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Hope you caught my post about the wonderfully weird plumbing of ducks, both male and female!

The scary thing is, women are probably more like female chimps than human males -- and men are more like male chimps than human females. And we're bad about trying to understand this....

[identity profile] cabin77.livejournal.com 2007-06-27 01:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Yet another wonderful article you've shared. Thank you!

There are many, many truths in that article!!! I could have told you most of the info about young boys vs. young girls! But after reading the article, I see that Buddy really is scientifically wired differently and CANNOT hear what Princess hears. I need to try to respond accordingly.

Several other truths: "Triggered by hormones, a mother's brain becomes a virtual GPS systems for tracking and protecting her young." I love that analogy! I can pick out my kids' voices on a crowded playground if they have even a HINT of distress in them. It's very strange. I also get a surge of adrenaline if I hear a news story about a missing kid. It becomes Princess or Buddy in my mind and for a moment I am Linda Hamilton in Terminator 2.

" As she nurses, oxytocin, the feel-good hormone, marinates a mother's brain. Many women say they are awash in feelings of warmth and pleasure." Breastfeeding Princess was one of the most intense experiences of my life. I remember early on that I would almost cry because I felt so much love and amazement for her. I was devastated when she weaned herself at 9 months. (Buddy was a different story - he had problems latching on and it was quite painful.) It's interesting to see just how much oxytocin is released during nursing. That explains a WHOLE lot!

Thanks again for the article! Keep 'em coming!

You're welcome!

[identity profile] alfreda89.livejournal.com 2007-06-27 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
And I appreciate all the wonderful info I get from my friends who are mothers. I need that research stuff, and the lord didn't see fit to give me children this time around. (My Ex would have been a disaster as a father, so it was just as well, but still...)

Re: You're welcome!

[identity profile] cabin77.livejournal.com 2007-06-28 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
Feel free to ask me anything about motherhood any time you need to. It's strange and wonderful and hard and wonderful and awful and wonderful!

Re: You're welcome!

[identity profile] alfreda89.livejournal.com 2007-06-28 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
Reminds me of that Boynton card for Recycled Paper Products -- "Congratulations on your new arrival" and then the inside says: "Wishing you joy and wonder and some sleep" !

It can be very frustrating to be male.

[identity profile] dragonherder1.livejournal.com 2007-07-04 12:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I know this may come across as being simply self-justifying, but sometimes a guy can really, really be concentrating on what their s.o. is saying and a shapely woman will wander past and 3 million or so years of evolution kicks in.

Very frustrating. I don't think that women realize how little this can be casually controlled.

David

Who actually really likes being male, but there are those moments....

And, thank goodness, tia_tarina is in the "look, but don't touch" camp....

And as a final comment, surprisingly I actually heard about a similar story from, of all places, an episode of "Focus on the Family" about twelve years ago.

Re: It can be very frustrating to be male.

[identity profile] alfreda89.livejournal.com 2007-07-06 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, as I've aged, it's been amusing and frustrating to realize that the biz about "girls have to put the brakes on guys" actually has merit. Of course, my Dad's interpretation of this was to make it clear to the boys that they should consider me a "look but don't touch". This was a battle, I'm sure, since I was 12 and looked 20. Early maturity probably has evolutionary advantages, but it was hard as he*&^ in the late 20th century.

Now, if I can just get well and be shapely again.... ;^)

Re: It can be very frustrating to be male.

[identity profile] dragonherder1.livejournal.com 2007-07-06 02:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Ouch,

I've had several friends with this problem and I suspect that it can be very difficult and even very frightening.

David