It is quite possible we've commented on some of the same LJs, but I know that I found (& friended) you specifically through the White List.

At the risk of sounding like a shameless fangirl, Night Calls is probably my favorite book of all time and my copy is hideously beat to hell and back because of how much I read the darn thing. It tops the list of books-that-have-changed-my-life. (Closely followed by Juniper, Wise Child, the Arrows triology by Mercedes Lackey, and Stranger in a Strange Land.)